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| Plant-based | ✓ |
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| No endocrine/hormone disruptors | ✓ |
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| Won't cause irritation, increased risk of STIs or infections | ✓ |
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| Glycerin and fragrance-free | ✓ |
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| pH-balanced correctly (4.0-4.5) | ✓ |
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Most common intimacy questions
Hormonal shifts during perimenopause can lead to low libido, vaginal dryness, discomfort during penetration, and less intense orgasms. These changes are common and very treatable, especially with thoughtfully made, plant-based intimacy products designed for sensitive skin.
To improve intimacy during perimenopause, our sexologists recommend a simple three-step routine:
1. Apply an arousal oil 10min+ before intimacy to increase blood flow and sensitivity.
2. Use a generous amount of lubricant to reduce dryness and improve comfort.
3. Add a warming massager for enhance circulation, relieve tension, and sensitivity.
With the right support, intimacy through perimenopause and beyond can feel pleasurable, comfortable, and fun!
It's quite common to experience low libido for a variety of reasons –about 43% of women 25% of men report low libido. The most common reasons are due to high stress, lack of sleep, relationship stressors, medications or hormonal changes. All of these can be libido suppressors.
Studies have shown that vibrators, lubricants and arousal oils can all help to naturally stimulate blood flow and increase both desire (wanting intimacy) and arousal (feeling aroused during intimacy). It's also healthy and recommended by intimacy professionals to engage in regular self-pleasure to boost desire.
Schedule connection time –easy activities that promote connection and having fun. Then schedule intimacy time where you have 'free nights' or blocks of time where you're uninterrupted. Having intimacy products handy also helps!
We love this question. Creating a nightstand collection you actually use makes intimacy feel easier and more inviting.
Our sexologists recommend starting with three essentials: an arousal oil to enhance blood flow and sensitivity, a lubricant for glide and comfort, and a toy to add stimulation.
Keeping these within arm’s reach removes friction and gives you everything you need to feel confident and connected.
Think of your nightstand as a love letter to yourself – a quiet reminder that your pleasure matters.
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Our Founder Story
I founded Bloomi to make enjoying intimacy feel easier. As a Latina sexologist and busy mom of two, I created Bloomi to offer simple, effective products that help people get in the mood. Our plant-based formulas are designed for sensitive skin and use botanical aphrodisiacs to support your mind-body connection and celebrate pleasure without shame.
xo,
Rebecca Alvarez Story, MA