The Workout You Should Be Doing for Better Sex

While most women are well aware of the general benefits of working out to reaching your physical goals (#squatlife), there is another group of muscles your should be “exercising” that will have a direct impact on your sex life. The pelvic floor muscles, also called the pubococcygeus, or “PC” muscles, are made up of the set of powerful muscles that extend from your pubic bone to your tailbone. They support both your body core and the organs of your lower abdomen. Kegels are (KEY-gull) specifically targeted exercises that train and strengthen these muscles.

Sexual Health Benefits of Kegels

Approximately 1 in 3 women will experience issues related to a weak pelvic floor due to: pregnancy, childbirth, being overweight, aging,  surgery and not exercising these muscles. Fortunately, strengthening your pelvic floor with kegel exercises is simple and can be fun.  Women who consistently strengthen these muscles see improved benefits [1] within a few months including:

  • Achieve more intense and frequent orgasms
  • Increases lubrication around arousal
  • Improves bladder control
  • Reduces incontinence
  • Increases sexual arousal
  • Improves lubrication
  • Achieve higher overall sexual satisfaction

Special Benefits for New Moms:

With up to 80% of expectant and new moms experiencing pelvic floor problems [2], kegel exercises are especially beneficial for women during pregnancy and postpartum. Studies have shown that women who start kegels early after a vaginal delivery experience a faster recovery process and unique health benefits in addition to those listed above [3]:

  • Aids in childbirth due to increased strength
  • Faster healing process postpartum
  • Overcomes urinary incontinence
  • Prevents unwanted leakage
  • Improves posture

When to Do Them

Kegels can be done anytime with special kegel balls, yoni eggs or exercise trainers. Whether you set aside 5 minutes at the gym or do them during your next meeting, you will notice a difference within a few weeks if you do them consistently.

However, most women say they can’t remember to do them everyday, so we recommend setting a daily alarm, or to make it even easier (and fun), try the Elvie kegel trainer that comes with a fun gamified app on your phone. It is Bluetooth compatible and even sends you a discreet daily reminder… kind of like a personal assistant for your pelvic floor muscles. So while #pelvicmusclegoals doesn’t have the same ring to it as #bootygoals, you will see the benefits in your sex life.

* If you have any pelvic floor medical conditions, please discuss these exercises with your doctor first.

Recommended reading: An Introductory Guide to Yoni Eggs 




[1] Lowenstein, L., Gruenwalk, I., Gartman, I. (2010) Can stronger pelvic floor improve sexual function? Int Urogynecol J.; 21:553-556.

[2] Herbert, J. (2009) Pregnancy and childbirth: the effects of pelvic floor muscles. Nursing Times; 105:7, 38-41.

[3] Citak, N., et al. (2010). Postpartum sexual function of women and the effects of early pelvic floor muscle exercises. Acta Obstetricia et Gynecologica;  89;817-822.

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